Anonymous: "Sounds like he might like you. Did he want to make love to you again the next morning or was he really satisfied with just cuddling?"
just cuddling, it was his friends house we couldn’t have anyway haha. He’s just such a gentleman and treats me in such a nice way and he’s pretty respectful towards me. we haven’t really spoken in the past two weeks, we used to talk like non stop all day. I’m going to stop talking about this now or else I’m just going to over think everything.
Anonymous: "The one time you had sex with this guy, what was he like after he finished? Did he want to talk and cuddle, or did he want to just go to sleep or leave?"
I was meant to go home that night but stayed over. And the next morning it was really nice- I was expecting him to just get dressed and offer to drive me home straight away but we just stayed in bed talking and cuddling for a few hours, even when his friends came downstairs he just stayed in bed with me. And that night or whatever we were just talking about how nice it was and he was saying that he just wanted to stay in bed with me and cuddle the whole day if he could and that he was happy etc.
to me it didn’t feel like just a one night stand sort of situation, he made it seem like it was more than that.
Anonymous: "One way to tell whether a guy is using you for sex or if he really likes you is to see how often he asks you to hang out in ways that will not necessarily lead to sex."
yeah i know that but he lives far away so we don’t hang often.
Anonymous: "Do you think your current sex partner is using you mainly for your body?"
I don’t think he’s my ‘current sex partner’ we’ve only slept together once..
but I don’t know what he wants, at first I definitely didn’t think that though.
Anonymous: "Whoever you like is treating you like shit because of the way you carry yourself. You just need to have a bit more respect for yourself and know your worth in order for him to do the same. You're obviously really pretty, but it's also obvious that you like to over sexualise everything about yourself, modesty goes a long way. You can't just give your body away almost immediately to a boy and expect him to think that you're special, you have to make him earn it."
I agree with you entirely.
I just really like him, so I give him what he wants and that’s not really the way to go about it if I don’t just want to be taken advantage of in that sense.
Anonymous: "who's frustrating you?"
do you ever go through those phases where you just don’t feel like talking to anyone for a few days and it’s not because you’re mad or anything you just don’t feel like talking???
(Source: clara-oswald, via dirtymagicc)